Hi you guys! Long time no see! Sorry I have been so busy with exams, and I wished that I had more time on here. Anyways, today I wanted to get something off of my chest that’s been bothering me for a while.
This past Sunday I had the pleasure of attending my meeting for Confirmation preparation, and that night we were celebrating reconciliation. For any of you guys, who are not Catholic, reconciliation is basically where you go and confess your sins to a priest in the hope of penance-forgiveness. My initial thought was that I was going to enter the reconciliation room, and rather, brazenly boast about the sins I have committed, because I simply wasn’t sorry-most of the time. However, I got a much different surprise.
While I entered the booth, the priest blessed me, and as I began to confess all the sins I’ve committed ( this past week, lol) I became more solemn, and surprisingly…regretful. I told him about the time I used to steal when I was 11, although I don’t do it anymore. It was petty things such as candy, girls’ jewelry and drugstore makeup. And that it’s not the case that I enjoyed stealing, or couldn’t control myself, it was rather that as long as I was able to justify that as long as I’m receiving some sort of benefit, it was O.K. Plus, it was more or less the convenience of obtaining whatever I wanted without having to pay ( albeit I didn’t suffer from financial issues during the time). He was rather stunned by my declaration of ” I’m not that sorry for my sins” and I, myself was stunned, because it was as if I was boasting. He and I both knew that no one is self-entitled to someone else’s property actually let me rephrase this, I have the capacity to know what is right and what is wrong.
The second “sin” was more of less…. guilt. I won’t delve into the exact details, but long story short, my friend ( whom I truly do care about ) stole another girl’s man… once again, the Priest was “unpleasantly” surprised. I admitted that it wasn’t that I condoned her actions, it was rather the guilt that welded in me witnessing my friend (not just a random slut at school) having an affair with a guy she met a little over a month, and that particular type of “person” is whom I abhor. I couldn’t just tell her off, coldly branding her a man-stealing bitch, because, well for one, I didn’t know her then boyfriend’s girlfriend, and two, she is my friend and I do care about her feelings, but to sit in art class and watch(ed) her bash his then girlfriend on Instagram, it’s just wrong. The priest, very candid said to rather ” leave it to God” or rather, we casually call this term: ” Karma”. It actually made genuine sense to me. Placing the situation in a different perspective, he said that it’s not so much about what you say, it’s more about the wisdom to say what you want at the appropriate time. I didn’t want to trash her, and make her feel like a whore ( although she once admitted she felt like a slut), the problem was that she was trying to justify her actions, because she let her feelings overwhelm her rationale. It’s one of those things that reiterate the famous quote: ” What comes around, goes around”, hence it’s stood against the test of time.
I guess what I’m trying to say is that, although I’ve never branded myself as ” holier than thou” I am subtly egotistical or prideful. and for a while, and confessing really opened up a new door for me. Nobody’s perfect and there is always room for improvement